DISCUSSION Ted and Rose are sitting in the living-room. They want to fly to Europe in their holiday. Now they are looking at some brochures about tourist-attractions but they do not know yet to what country they would like to travel.
Ted reads in the brochures very enthusiasticly and  already chooses some favourite places while Rose is drinking tea and  does not really think about the destinations in their common holiday. She always agrees with Teds opinions and does not express her own wishes.
Ted: Here Darling! What do you think about Paris? It is a beautiful place for two peaple who are in love with each other.
Rose: Oh yes! Paris would be great!
Ted: Or Italy! We could go to Rome... or would you like to go to Venece ?
Rose: ... oh yes!
Ted: Rose , you do not listen to me, do you? I think you are extremly indifferent about our holiday!
Rose: Do not worry Ted. Of course I am looking forward to our holiday. But I just trust in you. You should choose our destinations.
Ted: No Rose. I can not stand it anymore. You always say yes to everything and it is me again who makes the decisions. You are not able to take responsibility . Think about it Rose. You have a great problem and  that weighs heavily upon our marriage.
Ted leaves the living-room very angrily and shots the door with a loud bang.
Rose is not very surprised. She knows about  this problem and she knows about Teds opinion about it but she has never been able to solve the problem. If Rose could not gain control of the problem, then divorce would  become possible.
Deep inside Rose knows where it comes from. She feels that it has something to do with her mother An-Mei and her little brother Bing who died in a very early age.